Since we've been talking about 'wise marriage' according to Proverbs, it seems apropos to post a quote written by Ray Ortlund Jr. from his blog at The Gospel Coalition which Greg Demme recently put me on to. It succinctly summarizes Ephesians 5:33 [...let each one of you love his wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband] better than I've ever heard.
God made Adam first and put him in the Garden with a job to do, a mission to fulfill. In the heart of every fallen man is the self-doubt that wonders, "Am I man enough to climb this mountain God has called me to? Can I fulfill my destiny?" A wise wife will understand that question at the center of her husband's heart. And she will spend her life answering it, communicating to him in various ways, "Honey, I believe in your call. I know you can do this, by God's power. Go for it." In this way, she will breathe life into her man.
God made Eve from Adam, for Adam, to help him follow the call. In the heart of every fallen woman is the self-doubt that wonders, "Do I please you? Am I what you wanted?" A wise husband will understand that question at the center of his wife's heart. And he will spend his life answering it, communicating to her in various ways, "Darling, you are the one I need. I cherish you. Let me hold you close." In this way, he will breathe life into his wife.
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